We understand that the life experiences of LGBTQ+ older adults are as diverse as the people themselves. At FriendshipWorks, we honor these differences and affirm each person’s multifaceted identity.

At FriendshipWorks, we believe that friendship is for everyone. We are deeply committed to creating an inclusive and welcoming environment for LGBTQ+ older adults, recognizing the unique experiences and challenges they may face as they age.
We strive to ensure that all of our programs, volunteers, and community connections reflect our values of dignity, respect, and belonging. Whether through a Friendly Visiting match, a Medical Escort, or a caring conversation, our goal is to foster genuine relationships where every individual feels seen, valued, and supported.
We continue to listen, learn, and work alongside LGBTQ+ communities to ensure our work remains inclusive and responsive to their needs.
- Ways to Get Involved
- Volunteer to befriend an LGBTQ+ older adult
- Request an LGBTQ+ volunteer to visit an older adult
Our Ongoing Commitment
Over the years, FriendshipWorks has offered initiatives and discussion groups specifically designed to support LGBTQ+ older adults. While these programs are not currently active, our commitment to meeting the needs of LGBTQ+ individuals remains strong. We continue to foster inclusive connections and hope to offer dedicated programming again in the future as resources allow.
Resources
To Learn More about LGBTQ+ Aging:
Commonwealth of Massachusetts LGBT Aging Commission
Social Isolation from SAGE-Advocacy & Services for LGBTQ+ Elders
MA-LGBT Aging Commission Report 2024
MA-LGBT Aging Commission Report 2015
LGBTQ+ Communities:
FriendshipWorks is dedicated to ending social isolation among all older adults in Greater Boston, and we have a special focus on providing opportunities for social connection for LGBTQ+ elders. Through friendship, advocacy, education, assistance, and emotional support, we create intergenerational connections that uplift the LGBTQ+community and ease the challenges they face. For more information, please contact us at friend@fw4elders.org
Our Commitment to Safe and Culturally Competent Services
FriendshipWorks recognizes the need to create safe and affirming environments for LGBTQ+ older adults. We are committed to providing culturally competent care to all LGBTQ+ older adults through our programs including Friendly Visiting, Friendly Helping (currently available in Newton only), and Medical Escorts. Furthermore, FriendshipWorks seeks to be a resource for LGBTQ+ older adults and their friends.
LGBTQ+ Elders Face Unique Challenges
LGBTQ+ older adults face unique challenges as they age, due to a lifetime of discrimination. In a survey conducted by SAGE, nearly 60% of LGBTQ+ older adults reported feeling a lack of companionship, while over 50% reported feeling isolated from others. LGBTQ+ adults are twice as likely to be single and live alone and four times less likely to have children, which heightens their risk for being socially isolated. Furthermore, this population is more likely to face discrimination and harassment in nursing homes and assisted living facilities.
All of these factors can negatively impact LGBTQ+ older adults’ mental and physical health. By creating connection and community for LGBTQ+ older adults, we can alleviate the negative impacts of social isolation.